You know I am a good cook, so I know there are a few key steps to follow when making any great dish. If we want our relationship to turn into something great, we need to follow some of those rules, too. If you want to make a great stew, for instance, the first few things you would put into the pot would determine the flavor, the texture, and the overall greatness of the stew. The first thing I would like to put into "our pot" is a little compassion, sautéed with understanding, sprinkled with care, and topped off with a nice piece of tenderness. Let that simmer, and top it off with good humor and laughter. Then divide it into two generous servings, and we can savor the creation of our love.