Sample Letter #1
The strong desire that you had for me seems gone. I feel like you do not need me that way anymore; that you just want a family with no strings attached. And it seems that you no longer want or need intimacy which is so important in our marriage. We had many moments earlier in our marriage where we definitely had the need to share ourselves and I miss that intimacy. There does not seem to be enough loving. Have you lost all physical desire for me? I hope not.
If there is something that I can do to rekindle our love, please help me to understand. As I have said many times, I am willing to listen to your needs. All that I ask is that you tell me what you need and that you listen to my needs as well.