Sample Letter #1
When did we decide that we wanted to be in a relationship? Or did it just happen? We seemed to get along and care for one another but then I began to feel hurt deeply and often. You criticized and made fun of me and I continued to wonder why and how did things change?
And now you are gone and I wonder where you are in your feelings toward me? Do you regret how you mistreated me? I would never have imagined how much someone I once thought that I loved could hurt me. I still feel pain but it eventually turns to anger because I did not deserve the bad treatment.
You wrote and said that you would like to try again. My answer is that I need some assurance that you will try to change your behavior. If yes, please call me.